I decided I wanted to purchase a Ragdoll breed cat because of their loving, friendly nature. During the first weeks we realized he was terrified of human contact. Thankfully he bonded to our female rescue cat. As he grew, he wouldn't let us touch him. After about a year and a half of trying to bond with "Sterling," we bought Scaredy Cat Spirit Essences. SLOWLY, we noticed that he wasn't running away anymore. Then he started coming up on the bed with us and wanting belly rubs. TY Jackson!